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Why Are We Not Okay?

These sample stories reflect how people are feeling in a season where political labels feel louder than our shared humanity. They’re not about taking sides. They’re about the weight we’re all carrying when Democrats and Republicans stop listening and start fighting.

You’ll see a mix of text messages, emails, video reflections, and photo stories.

Types: Text Email Video Photo
"M." Early 30s · Small business owner
Video
Submitted 2 weeks ago Shared by Email
Anonymous Late 20s · Young professional
Video
Submitted 2 weeks ago Shared by Email
Clark Mid 50s · Small business owner
Video
Submitted 2 weeks ago Shared by Email
“L.” Early 30s · Teacher
Photo

“I sent a photo of my empty classroom after a long day. My caption said: ‘I’m not okay because my students are learning to talk about politics the way adults do online — with fear and sarcasm, not curiosity and care.’ I see kids repeating talking points they heard at home, and I wish we could model listening instead of labeling.”

Submitted 5 days ago Shared anonymously
Harry Late 30s · Dad of three

“I’m not okay because holidays feel like walking a political tightrope. One side of the family leans Republican, the other leans Democrat, and I spend the whole day trying to keep the peace. I don’t want my kids to grow up thinking the people at the other end of the table are the enemy. I want them to see that loving someone matters more than winning an argument.”

Submitted 4 days ago Shared by Contact Form
Anonymous Mid 60s · Retired
Text For team only

“I’ve lived long enough to remember when neighbors borrowed sugar from each other without asking for a voter registration card first. I’m not okay because I hear people at church talk as if God only loves one party. I believe we can stand for what we believe and still treat each other with respect, but it feels like that muscle has atrophied. I miss simple kindness.”

Submitted this month Shared anonymously

These are just a few examples of what people are sharing as they wrestle with political division and cultural tension. When you send your own story above, you can choose whether it stays private or, with your permission, becomes part of this chorus reminding others they’re not alone. If you’d like your story removed or updated, please email info@hopenotfearproject.org.

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“Why I’m Not Okay” — Share Your Thoughts

This is a safe place to say the quiet part out loud. You can send a quick text, write an email, fill out the form, or share a video or photo that captures how you’re really doing. You don’t have to fix it. You just have to share it.

Share by Text

Quick
Send a simple message that finishes the sentence “I’m not okay because…”. No filters, no pressure, just real words.
Text us at: +1 (614) 570-7684 Standard message & data rates may apply.

Share by Email

Thoughtful
If you need more space to process, write out your story. You can include as much or as little detail as you want.
Email: info@hopenotfearproject.org We read every message with care.

Video Story

Face & Voice
Sometimes it’s easier to talk than to type. Record a short video sharing what’s heavy on your heart right now.
Upload via the form on this page or send a link in your email. Links to private YouTube / Vimeo videos are welcome.

Photo + Caption

Visual
Share an image that captures how you feel — a moment, a place, a scribbled note — along with a short caption.
Attach a photo below or email it with the subject “Why I’m Not Okay.” We won’t share anything publicly without your permission.

Not Sure What to Say?

You can start with one sentence: “Today I’m not okay because…” or “The thing I’m afraid to say out loud is…”. That’s enough.